Relationships

On a Friend

by John M. Harney 1789–1825

From The Poets and Poetry of America (1855)

Relationships

Devout, yet cheerful; pious, not austere;
To others lenient, to himself severe;
Though honored, modest; diffident, though praised;
The proud he humbled, and the humble raised;
Studious, yet social; though polite, yet plain;
No man more learned, yet no man less vain.
His fame would universal envy move,
But envy's lost in universal love.
That he has faults, it may be bold to doubt,
Yet certain 't is we ne'er have found them out.
If faults he has, (as man, 'tis said, must have,)
They are the only faults he ne'er forgave.
I flatter not: absurd to flatter where
Just praise is fulsome, and offends the ear.

MLA

Harney, John M. “On a Friend.” Poetry Codex, poetrycodex.com/poem/harney/1/.

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Harney, John M. “On a Friend.” Poetry Codex. https://poetrycodex.com/poem/harney/1/.

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