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To Sir Ralph Shelton

by Ben Jonson 1572-1637

From Epigrams (1616)

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Not he that flies the court for want of clothes,
At hunting rails, having no gift in oaths,
Cries out 'gainst cocking, since he cannot bet,
Shuns press — for two main causes, pox and debt,
With me can merit more, than that good man,
Whose dice not doing well, to a pulpit ran. —
No, Shelton, give me thee, canst want all these,
But dost it out of judgment, not disease;
Dar'st breathe in any air; and with safe skill,
Till thou canst find the best, choose the least ill.
That to the vulgar canst thyself apply,
Treading a better path, not contrary;
And in their error's maze thine own way know:
Which is to live to conscience, not to show.
He that, but living half his age, dies such,
Makes the whole longer than 'twas given him, much.

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Epigrams, no. 119.

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Jonson, Ben. “To Sir Ralph Shelton.” Poetry Codex, poetrycodex.com/poem/jonson/159/.

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