Relationships

Ye fair married dames, who so often deplore

by David Garrick 1717–1779

From Lyra Elegantiarum, ed. Frederick Locker (London: E. Moxon, 1867)

Relationships

Ye fair married dames, who so often deplore
That a lover once blest is a lover no more;
Attend to my counsel, nor blush to be taught
That prudence must cherish what beauty has caught.

The bloom of your cheek, and the glance of your eye,
Your roses and lilies may make the men sigh;
But roses and lilies, and sighs pass away.
And passion will die as your beauties decay.

Use the man that you wed like your fav'rite guitar,
Though music in both, they are both apt to jar;
How tuneful and soft from a delicate touch,—
Not handled too roughly, or play'd on too much!

The sparrow and linnet will feed from your hand.
Grow tame at your kindness, and come at command;
Exert with your husband the same happy skill;
For hearts, like young birds, may be tamed at your will.

Be gay and good-humoured, complying and kind.
Turn the chief of your care from your face to your mind;
'Tis thus that a wife may her conquests improve,
And Hymen shall rivet the fetters of Love.

MLA

Garrick, David. “Ye fair married dames, who so often deplore.” Poetry Codex, poetrycodex.com/poem/garrick/1/.

Chicago

Garrick, David. “Ye fair married dames, who so often deplore.” Poetry Codex. https://poetrycodex.com/poem/garrick/1/.

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