Time & Brevity
A Question of Marriage
From Winter Words in Various Moods and Metres (1928)
I yield you my whole heart, Countess,’ said he;
Come, Dear, and be queen of my studio.”
“No, sculptor. You’re merely my friend,” said she:
“We dine our artists; but marry them — no.”
“Be it thus,” he replied. And his love, so strong,
He subdued as a stoic should. Anon
He wived some damsel who’d loved him long,
Of lineage noteless; and chiselled on.
And a score years passed. As a master-mind
The world made much of his marching fame,
And his wife’s little charms, with his own entwined,
Won day after day increased acclaim.
The countess-widow had closed with a mate
In rank and wealth of her own degree,
And they moved among the obscurely great
Of an order that had no novelty.
And oldening — neither with blame nor praise —
Their stately lives begot no stir,
And she saw that when death should efface her days
All men would abandon thought of her;
And said to herself full gloomily:
“Far better for me had it been to shine
The wench of a genius such as he
Than rust as the wife of a spouse like mine!
Cite this poem
MLA
Hardy, Thomas. “A Question of Marriage.” Poetry Codex, poetrycodex.com/poem/hardy/738/.
Chicago
Hardy, Thomas. “A Question of Marriage.” Poetry Codex. https://poetrycodex.com/poem/hardy/738/.
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